On December 3, 2013, a year after Mom had moved into a long-term care facility (LTCF), I sent an email to the person in legal control of my mother’s care, and the Director of Nursing of the LTCF. It read in part: I am deeply distressed by Mom’s present condition. I have reviewed in detail the … Continue reading four years later is too late for my mom. but it’s not for others.